About Me

Welcome to my life, my thoughts. Pick my brains but make sure you leave it intact afterwards =P
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I am a mother of a lovely 3 year old girl. A wife to a very loving husband and I am a passionate woman. I love writing, cooking, surfing the web, experiencing new things and blogging.

This is a place where I can express myself and my thoughts, my opinions and my point of views. A place where I can blog about some things that are important to me, or those that suddenly crossed my mind, also a place to blog my contest entries, if need be.



If I may introduce myself - I am Elaine Buenaventura-Malonzo, I live in Las Pinas now, but my hometown is in Pasig both in the Philippines, My family (Noel-My Husband, Nike-Our Daughter and Myself) is planning on migrating to Singapore really really soon - like January, My husband is already there working, and I am going to follow him there in January 2011, then Nike will follow us there in July 2011. We will be trying to build a new life in a country full of possibilities and full of fruitful future.

I am married with a daughter, as you might already guessed. I love the color Old Rose (a grayish rendition of pink), I adore sun flowers, tulips and calla lilies. I am 26 years old and have been writing my entire life. I used to write poems while I was in elementary and highschool and started blogging around college. Some say I am a pretty good and convincing writer but I think anyone can be convincing and good as long as s/he writes about his or her interests and passion.

I graduated with a Commerce Degree in Management of Financial Institutions in De La Salle University - ID 100, 04 graduate (delayed 1 term :P ), but I do not practice my degree, instead I am a BUM, a full time mom lovingly taking care and raising my 3-year old daughter and 3 year old Lhasa Apso.

I am a passionate person, mentally, psychologically, and physically. I am a woman and I am not afraid to speak my mind. I have power and poise and I have strength and courage. I am a mother and a wife, a sister and a daughter but most of important of all I am a friend.

Thanks so much for dropping by and picking my brains, hope you can follow me, or just be a fan of my Facebook Fan Page - its just a click away :)

What else is there left for me to say about me…by reading all that I’ve written you could probably say a lot things about me…based on the pictures you could already see how I look like…You all know me…Inside and out…so what else is there left to say? Nothing I suppose…but then again there is always something…

          Do you really know who I am? Do I really know who I am…well let me just put it this way…we all know each other…in one way or another…I am you…look inside your self and you will see that we are the same…we think that we have unique characteristics that differs us from one another but then again we feel the same, we act the same…we probably don’t know the same things and we might react differently in different situations…but at the end of the day, when you look at me and you look at yourself, you will say…Hey we are so different yet so much alike in so many ways…

          So then…what makes me, me and what makes you, you? Nothing…Absolutely nothing!! The face? The smile? The look and the voice? Its nothing! They are all illusions that every one of us believes…We are blinded by the physical characteristics that we see hear and touch!! But that’s not what makes us…Now without that ask yourself…Who am I? Or who is this girl whose journal I’m reading? Can you now describe me differently with how you might describe yourself given the same situtation? We are toys of life and we are happy being one…we live each day knowing that we are being played by life and yet we accept it…because that’s all we can ever and we will ever have…we never strive for more than what life can offer us…we even call it unethical if we dream of such things…we call ourselves free and we love the freedom that we believe we have and yet we are imprisoned by ourselves in a life that we never even chose to live…And then sooner or later when you are drowning with the freedom that you thought you have you wonder, who am I? What makes me? And that’s when you realize…I’m no different than the person I’m talking to…we are both naïve and foolish to believe that we control all our actions and nothing is above us…we are both happy being just the way we are yet unsatisfied…we are both living each day as if we need to live…our actions are both a reaction from life and the way it runs as it always ran…we both think that nothing measures us and that life is with us and not against us…We both believe that there is a higher being that protects us…from what? We are the same because we both don’t know…we make mistakes…we probably do not make the same mistakes at the same time but we do make the same mistakes…and do we really learn from the…actually we both do not…and we both keep on doing the same things over and over again…everything about us is the same and we are both Life’s routine…And are we really happy knowing this…we actually are…we are even thankful that we are living this life and we preserve it any which way we can…But who am I really? Who are you? We still don’t know…we would never really know… But we are the same…I am you and you are me…in every way…